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Holdback and be Deprived

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Monday, 18 June 2012 15:45

Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) addressed Asmaa (radiyallahu anha) and said, “Continue spending (in the path of Allah Ta’ala) and do not count and hoard, or else Allah Ta’ala will count and give you.” (Saheeh Bukhari #2591)

If we will hold onto our wealth, we will deprive ourselves from receiving wealth from the unseen unlimited treasures of Allah Ta’ala. It is indeed sad that some women hold onto the money of their husbands. They wish to take full control of all the wealth that comes into the home and leaves the home. The tragedy is when the wife stops the husband from spending on the poor, or on his family members that are in dire poverty. This is definitely not the approach of a Muslim woman. She should help in good causes and encourage others as well.

 

We Cannot Change Others

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Monday, 18 June 2012 11:34

A woman of piety is faced with this challenge that while she keeps on encouraging her family and friends to come closer onto Deen, no one is prepared to listen to her and follow her. The advice for such a woman is that she must continue doing her work of doing good as well as encouraging others. However she must not fall so deep in the matters of others that she neglects her own good deeds or that she stops encouraging others because they are not practicing on her words. Our duty is to offer advice to others and continue practicing good deeds. We cannot force someone to change their life. This is not within our control, thus we should not allow it to overwhelm us. However if people are not giving up the wrong that they are involved in, why do we so easily lose hope and give up the good that we are doing (of encouraging others onto Deen)?

 

The Devil's Injection

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Monday, 18 June 2012 10:20

Sometimes we may like something while not realising that in it lies our destruction. Likewise we may at times dislike something yet it is our salvation. Allah Ta’ala alone knows what is good for us. 

With regards to having children, some couples only have girls while others have boys. Some have their children early, while others later. Some have one and some have none. All of this happens with the divine command of our Allah Ta’ala. The moment we forget our Allah Ta’ala, Shaytaan the devil gets an opportunity to interfere. He injects such thoughts and feelings into us that we start doubting and questioning our Allah Ta’ala. We lose trust in our compassionate Allah Ta’ala. With time we move further and further away from our loving Allah Ta’ala. Life then becomes helpless, hopeless and miserable. All we need to do is turn once more towards our forgiving Allah Ta’ala, be content with his decree and then see our lives brightening up once again.  

 

The Gift of Me'raj

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Saturday, 16 June 2012 10:07

On the twenty seventh of Rajab people discuss the great incident of Me’raj. Thereafter by and large the miracle of Me’raj and its message is forgotten until the following year.

Unlike us, the Sahaabah (radiyallahu anhum) and the Tabi'een (those who came after the Sahaabah) never set aside any particular day for the discussion of the incident of Me’raj. Hence even the scholars of the first century differed with regard to the actual date when Me’raj occurred (see Fathul Bari, vol.7, pg.203 and Ruhul Ma’aani, vol.15, pg.6). The Sahaabah (radiyallahu anhum) and the Tabi'een (rahimahumullah) had no need to set aside any particular day for this discussion. They regularly and frequently discussed the Ahadith with regard to all aspects of the life of Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam). They lived the message of Me’raj every day of their lives. 

Read more: The Gift of Me'raj

 

Through Thick and Thin

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Friday, 01 June 2012 22:04

When Ayyub (alaihis salaam) was tested with an illness, everyone had abandoned him except his wife Rahma. She remained by his side to nurse and take care of him. This is a praiseworthy quality of a loyal wife. Indeed, every husband must have great compassion, love and consideration for his wife. The wife must be totally loyal to her husband in all conditions. It should not be the case of enjoying life with the husband in prosperity and abandoning him when he is ill or in difficulty. There is an expression that says, “When poverty knocks at the door then love flies out through the window.” Nevertheless a Muslim wife should continue to serve and obey her husband solely for the pleasure of Allah Ta’ala. We should not be motivated by the temporary material world.

 

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