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Four Qualities of a Pious Wife

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Friday, 01 June 2012 21:44

Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) said: “After the Taqwa (fear) of Allah Ta’ala, there is no favour that a believer may enjoy better than a pious wife. If he instructs her she obeys him, if he looks towards her, she brings delight to him, if he takes an oath for her to do something she carries it out and if he is away from her (on a journey, etc.) she acts in good faith regarding her personal self and his wealth” (Ibnu Maajah #1857).

This Hadith outlines four qualities of a pious wife:

1) Whenever the husband instructs her to do something lawful, she carries it out. She is an obedient wife. 

2) When the husband looks towards her she brings him joy. This is only possible if her ways and habits are according to his liking (within the boundaries of Deen), and she tries to keep his heart happy. If a woman makes it her habit to be very moody and pull up her face for every petty issue, the husband will start regarding it as a calamity to come home after a long day at work.

3) When the husband takes an oath that the wife should do a certain action, then she carries it out. Out of love he takes an oath and out of love she fulfills that oath to keep him happy. This is due to that special bond that they enjoy. 

4) When the husband goes somewhere and he is away from the wife, she remains faithful regarding herself and his wealth. She does not have any form of relationship with strange men and she does not squander the husband’s wealth. She conducts herself as she would in his presence. This is true loyalty.

 
 

Monthly Allowance

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Thursday, 07 June 2012 15:16

Question:

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Asalaamu Alaykum. I am married for 5 years, for the first three years, I would receive an allowance from my husband. Now for almost two years, he doesn't give me a cent, and always complains that he has many debts to pay. I feel that the debts are his own doing and that I am being cheated off my allowance so that he can pay his debts. It gets so bad sometimes that if I need a little money, I have to borrow from the neighbour as he sternly refuses to give me money for myself. With regards to groceries, he buys the necessary items. But I'm talking about money for my personal use. Is it right for him to do this?

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Q: What if a woman starts bleeding before experiencing fifteen days of purity?

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Wednesday, 06 June 2012 20:44

A: If a woman, after completing her cycle begins to bleed again within 15 days, it will not be considered the start of a new cycle. This blood will be regarded as istihaadhah (dysfunctional uterine bleeding). (The laws of istihaadhah will be discussed later.)

 

Qur’aan - The Majestic Book of Allah Ta'ala

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Tuesday, 05 June 2012 09:46

An excerpt taken from a Ladies Tarbiyat Program by Moulana Naeem Motala Saheb:

What is the Qur’aan? It is a ‘Letter’ from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala in 30 Para’s!

Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala has blessed us with great bounties that we cannot enumerate! We just make a little bit of ibadaat and in lieu of that ibadaat, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala accepts our little effort and gives us a perpetual Jannat. 

Of the great bounties that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala has given us is the Qur’aan-e-Majeed! Have you pondered on the beautiful message sent to you? This is the greatest ‘link’ and means of ‘Connecting ourselves to Allah‘. 

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Sayyidah Khadeeja (radiyallahu anha) - mp3

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Monday, 04 June 2012 08:01

A journey through her life by: Moulana Ahmad Paruk

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Virtues / Title of Taahirah (the Pure One) / Not being affected by the wrong  influences of her society / Two marriages / Business / Employing Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) / Factors that motivated her to propose for Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) / Guidelines for choosing a husband / Married life / First to accept Islam and perform Salaah / Demise

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       An inspirational Woman by: Moulana Muhammad Ilyas Patel

Blessings of discussing the lives of the Pious / Who is an inspirational personality? / The best woman of this Ummah-Why? / First revelation to Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) / The inspirational role she played/ Enumerating his sublime qualities / Family ties / Referring to people of knowledge / Supporting the husband in Deen

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An inspirational Woman by: Moulana Ismail Husain

What makes you an inspiration to others? / Be positive / When the going gets tough the tough get going / Keep your focus only on the power of Allah Ta’ala - nothing will ever put you down nor will anything throw you high / An inspiration needs to be inspired / A guide needs to be guided / We need to be the change we wish to see in others / A few glimpses of how Khadeeja (radiyallahu anha) inspired those around her

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