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I Want Children

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Last Updated on Tuesday, 22 April 2014 15:55

Question:

Assalaamu ‘alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh

I married 3 years ago but my husband was living abroad. Now, since the last 4 months we are living together but I cannot conceive. Doctor’s reports are ok.

Please help me I want my own babies.

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Indecent Dressing?

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Last Updated on Thursday, 17 April 2014 15:39

Question:

I often wear jeans and other western attire indoors. If I leave the home, I always don an abaya over my clothes and also wear hijaab. My husband is ok with my dressing but my mother keeps fighting with me that my dressing is indecent. I do not see anything indecent in how I dress, especially since it is only indoors. Please advise. (summarized).

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Inquisitive Mother in Law

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Last Updated on Tuesday, 15 April 2014 15:02

Correspondence of Hazrat Moulana Yunus Patel Saheb (rahimahullah)

Letter: 

Respected Moulana

Whenever I intend to go out, my mother in law asks me where I am going. I am finding this very annoying. I feel she is being too nosey. Do I have to tell her?

There is no place my husband and I go to without her wanting to know where we are going. I find this very interfering in my marriage and feel she just wants to exercise her authority over her youngest son. Is it still his duty to answer her, or can we just say we are going out, greet her and not tell her the actual places?

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Repentance

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Last Updated on Tuesday, 15 April 2014 14:56

Correspondence of Hazrat Moulana Yunus Patel Saheb (rahimahullah)

Letter: 

As Salaamu ‘alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaatuh

Maulana, despite having spent 5 years at madrasah, and being occupied in the service of deen, I still find myself weak with regard to nafs (the carnal self) and Shaitaan. I still fall into some sin or the other. This makes me very despondent and a feeling of darkness envelops me. I carry out some good actions and then spoil them with some bad deed. There are times when I find myself intending to do something displeasing to Allah Ta‘ala, then though I find restlessness in my heart, I give in to nafs and Shaitaan. After this, I cry in repentance, but after some time, fall into some sin again.

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Oral Sex

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Last Updated on Monday, 10 March 2014 15:19

Question:

My husband insists on having oral sex. He says that he won’t ejaculate and I won’t be swallowing anything napaak (impure). If I refuse to do so, I fear that he will seek pleasure elsewhere or file for divorce. For him, that is the main form of pleasure. I have heard some fatwas that say it is makrooh and others that say it is haraam. What does a female do in the event that her husband insists on it?

Please advise.

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