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Husband on Drugs

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Last Updated on Tuesday, 20 August 2013 07:41

Correspondence of Hazrat Moulana Yunus Patel Saheb (rahimahullah)

Letter: One

Assalamualaikum

Moulana

I am married for 2 yrs and have a 10 month old baby. When I got married my husband was not on drugs. A few months later he started using drugs, I do not trust him and sometimes hate him for what he put me through. I just feel like being away from him, what should I do Moulana, please help me.

May Allah reward you abundantly in both worlds.

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Addressing the Problems in Marriage

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Last Updated on Thursday, 27 June 2013 12:33

Correspondence of Hazrat Moulana Yunus Patel Saheb (rahimahullah)

Letter:

Respected Moulana

My marriage is in problems for a while now. My husband comes home late and wants to be by himself. We have had no family life for the last three years and everything revolves around him. I know he is talking to other women and I have grown to accept it. I just want this marriage to work. Please inform me as to what I may read to create love in his heart so he may want to come home and spend time with me and my children.

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Family Unity

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Last Updated on Tuesday, 16 April 2013 12:36

Correspondence of Hazrat Moulana Yunus Patel Saheb (rahimahullah)

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Asalamu alaykum wa ra matullahi wabarakatu

My in laws family is very small, just the immediate family so if we have any small family function I find it necessary to invite my husband’s two aunties however my father in law does not agree with me inviting them as there have been past occasions where his (father in laws) sister had not invited them. I have not been brought up that way and family unity is very important to me. My husband himself disagrees with his father on the matter. What is the way forward?

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The Right Marriage Partner

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Last Updated on Friday, 22 March 2013 17:38

Correspondence of Hazrath Moulana Yunus Patel  Saheb (rahimahullah)

Letter:

Respected Moulana

I am seeking Maulana’s advice and guidance in regards to marriage, and would like to know what are the qualities that one looks for in finding a suitable partner, and how does one know that she has found the right person?

Reply:

Bismillahir Rahmaanir Raheem

As Salaamu ‘alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaatuh

Respected Sister in Islam 

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Going Out with Cousin and her Husband

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Last Updated on Monday, 25 March 2013 08:39

Correspondence of Hazrath Moulana Yunus Patel  Saheb (rahimahullah)

Letter:

Respected Moulana

I would really appreciate your advice on the following matter which causes a lot of bickering and unhappiness in my home. 

Is it possible for a Muslim girl to go out (like for dinner/shopping/to the beach) with her female cousin and her husband. My mother feels we must only go out with our parents.

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