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Family Unity

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Last Updated on Tuesday, 16 April 2013 12:36

Correspondence of Hazrat Moulana Yunus Patel Saheb (rahimahullah)

Letter

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Asalamu alaykum wa ra matullahi wabarakatu

My in laws family is very small, just the immediate family so if we have any small family function I find it necessary to invite my husband’s two aunties however my father in law does not agree with me inviting them as there have been past occasions where his (father in laws) sister had not invited them. I have not been brought up that way and family unity is very important to me. My husband himself disagrees with his father on the matter. What is the way forward?

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The Right Marriage Partner

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Last Updated on Friday, 22 March 2013 17:38

Correspondence of Hazrath Moulana Yunus Patel  Saheb (rahimahullah)

Letter:

Respected Moulana

I am seeking Maulana’s advice and guidance in regards to marriage, and would like to know what are the qualities that one looks for in finding a suitable partner, and how does one know that she has found the right person?

Reply:

Bismillahir Rahmaanir Raheem

As Salaamu ‘alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaatuh

Respected Sister in Islam 

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Going Out with Cousin and her Husband

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Last Updated on Monday, 25 March 2013 08:39

Correspondence of Hazrath Moulana Yunus Patel  Saheb (rahimahullah)

Letter:

Respected Moulana

I would really appreciate your advice on the following matter which causes a lot of bickering and unhappiness in my home. 

Is it possible for a Muslim girl to go out (like for dinner/shopping/to the beach) with her female cousin and her husband. My mother feels we must only go out with our parents.

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Improving the Home

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Last Updated on Monday, 25 March 2013 08:40

Correspondence of Hazrath Moulana Yunus Patel  Saheb (rahimahullah)

Letter:

Respected Maulana,

As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum 

Please advise me in respect to the following. 

I would like to know if it is a sin to have a very clean and beautiful house? I hope I am not attached to worldly things, but the carpet in my lounge is torn and I want to buy a new one. I also want to paint my kitchen since the walls are peeling and looking dirty. And I want other items for my home whereby I can make my everyday tasks easy and have time for more Ibaadah – instead of working and cleaning all the time.

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Naming the Child

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Last Updated on Monday, 25 March 2013 08:40

Correspondence of Hazrat Moulana Yunus Patel Saheb (rahimahullah) 

Letter: 

Respected Moulana,

As-Salaamu alaikum warahmatullah

My husband and I have been discussing the issue of the naming of children. We would like to know whose right it is to name the child. Is it the father’s right or the mother’s right? We have been getting different feedback and contradicting answers and we thus decided we will settle on what you say.

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