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Misunderstanding between Spouses

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Last Updated on Monday, 25 March 2013 08:40

Correspondence of Hazrat Moulana Yunus Patel Saheb (rahimahullah) 

Letter

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Asalamu alaikum Maulana

I have come across your website at a time when I most need guidance.

I am married for almost one and a half years. My husband and I have a very strong relationship most of the time. However, there are things we don't understand and this is causing conflict between us. I try very hard to be a good wife to my husband. Sometimes I get angry and upset with him. I say or do things in anger without thinking. I need guidance. I feel we don't communicate enough about what is bothering us and where we are going. Sometimes my husband irritates me in a good way but beyond the limit and I am finding it hard to handle. Please give me advice and guidelines on being a better wife. Sometimes he is wrong too, but he won't see it. May Allah reward you, Insha-Allah.

Jazakallah.

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Husband Not Happy with Cooking

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Last Updated on Monday, 25 March 2013 08:40

Correspondence of Hazrat Moulana Yunus Patel Saheb (rahimahullah) 

Letter:

Asalaam Mu Alaikum Maulana

I am married for several years. Shukr alhamdullilah I love my husband and he loves me and we have a good relationship. However, we have a problem commonly found in other marriages which has become serious: my husband is not happy with my cooking. I try very hard to make the kind of food he likes by looking for new recipes, asking my mother-in-law etc but he is always unhappy. When he doesn't like it, he gets very upset and angry and sometimes he has come close to giving me one 'talaaq' - astagfirrullah. I don't know what to do, as I love him and try so hard but he is rarely happy. He is a very fussy man and has high expectations which I can't seem to meet, no matter how hard I have tried. When I got married I didn't know how to cook, so I tried very quickly to learn, am learning everyday, but I am still unable to please him. Please can you give me some guidance and make dua for my marriage and for myself.

JazakAllah

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