Nafl fasts before Qaza

Question:

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Asalamu alukum. 

1. Is it permissible to keep Nafl fasts (of Ashura etc) before keeping Qadha fasts? 

2. If one does keep a Nafl fast first is the Qadha automatically taken?

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Product for Hair Loss

Question:

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I have been experiencing considerable amounts of hair loss have been told about a product that is excellent however, the spray contains alcohol. I am not sure about the percentage but is it permissible for me to use. Keeping in mind salaah.

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Frustrated with my Kidz

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Assalamo aleikum! I have 3 kidz all boys alhamdolillah. I love them very much but I can’t give them proper live attention and care I don’t know what to do? I love my kidz more than everything or anything but can’t show or express that love! When they far from me I cry I miss them but when they near me or with me I only make gussa on them and shout to them then I feel very bad after treating them like this! They very stubborn and they don’t listen to me that’s make me more angry and then I lose control over myself! What should I do maulana to be a good mother loving and caring mother and to give my kidz a good education and good manners?

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Birthdays

Question:

What is the ruling regarding birthdays? Our muslims greet one another on this day and feel insulted if one does not greet them. Another issue is regarding birthday cakes, gifts and parties. Please advise.

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Kissing one's male cousins

Question:

May I please have advice (sin, punishment etc) that I can pass on to those females that kiss their male cousins upon greeting and advice to the male cousins that allow their cousins to kiss them. May I also have advice that I may pass on to females that kiss their brother in laws. May Allah reward you in abundance in both worlds, Ameen.

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