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Oral Sex


Last Updated on Monday, 10 March 2014 15:19


My husband insists on having oral sex. He says that he won’t ejaculate and I won’t be swallowing anything napaak (impure). If I refuse to do so, I fear that he will seek pleasure elsewhere or file for divorce. For him, that is the main form of pleasure. I have heard some fatwas that say it is makrooh and others that say it is haraam. What does a female do in the event that her husband insists on it?

Please advise.

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Help me to Stop Chatting with this Guy


Last Updated on Monday, 17 February 2014 15:27




I am married with children alhamdulillah. A few months into my marriage, because of in-laws interference, my husband started physically abusing me a lot. This would only happen in the room and my in-laws or no-one knew of this. I was scared of telling anyone. This carried on for a few years.

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Why didn’t my Marriage Work?


Last Updated on Tuesday, 28 January 2014 15:51




Respected Moulana/ Mufti Saab

I tried to do everything right in my marriage. It was an arranged marriage, we didn’t communicate much before the nikaah, and we had a small wedding. I wanted to be a stay at home wife, to take care of my husband, our home, invite his family for suppers and see to our future children. 

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Fitness Program for Women


Last Updated on Wednesday, 27 November 2013 16:31

Many questions are received with regard to physical fitness for females. The following question and answer serves as a reply in principle for all such questions.



I intend commencing a physical fitness programme for women, which will include walking daily, etc. The motivation is to fulfil the deeni requirement of taking care of one’s health, which is greatly neglected nowadays.

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Bad in Cooking


Last Updated on Saturday, 09 November 2013 15:02


I was good in cooking but after marriage I make blunders in cooking. My in-laws said nothing but it’s being more than three years and I still make mistakes. This makes me mentally upset all the time. Can you help me?


Bismihi Ta‘ala

Respected Sister

Assalaamu ‘alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakaatuh

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