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No Proposals

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Question:

Assalaamu ‘alaikum

I have a problem. Guys come see me and don’t come back or call again. It’s like when they see my face they have to run like hell. I am not so repulsive though. It’s so sad.

It’s not like I don’t pray my salaah or try to the best of my ability to do everything right. I remind myself patience is the key.

Allah make it easy for us to come out victorious from these tests.

Jazakallah

Answer:

Bismihi Ta‘ala

Wa ‘alaikumus salaam wa rahmatullahi wa barkaatuh

Respected Sister in Islam

Life is a test. Sometimes, one is tested in regard to marriage being delayed. However, when one remains steadfast on Deen and does not get involved in any haraam, one will be immensely rewarded in this world and the next.

There have been many cases where someone waited for years. Eventually, a suitable match was found and the marriage took place. Insha-Allah, you too will receive suitable proposals. May Allah Ta‘ala bless you with a pious and very good natured spouse who will be the coolness of your eyes in every respect.

Daily recite “Ya Jaami‘u Ya Lateefu” 111 times together with durood shareef 11 times before and after. Do this for at least 40 days and make sincere du‘aa.

Answered by:

Uswatul Muslimah Panel of ‘Ulama