Question:
Assalaamu ‘alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh
I married 3 years ago but my husband was living abroad. For the past four months we are living together but I cannot conceive. Doctors reports are okay.
Please help me I want my own babies.
Answer:
Bismihi Ta‘ala
Wa ‘alaikumus salaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh
Respected Sister
The most effective aspect in acquiring one’s wishes is du‘aa. Sincerely turn unto Allah Ta‘ala and beg His help, especially if possible at the time of tahajjud.
Daily after every salaah make the following du‘aas very earnestly;
1. Du‘aa of Nabi Zakariyya (‘alaihis salaam) – “Rabbi hab lee milladunka zurriyyatan tayyibah, innaka samee‘ud du‘aa.” (O My Rabb! Bless me from Your special favour, with a good [pious] child. Definitely You hear [and answer] my du‘aa).
2. Du‘aa of Nabi Ebrahim (‘alaihis salaam) – “Rabbi hab lee minas saaliheen.” (O My Rabb! Bless me with a righteous child)
While begging for His favours and undertaking any permissible means, also bear in mind that whatever Allah Ta‘ala decrees for us is best for us, though we may not understand the wisdom of His decrees. We should nevertheless entirely submit to Him at all times.
Answered by:
Uswatul Muslimah Panel of ‘Ulama