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In Privacy, Not Public
It is natural that couples now and again become irritated and angry with one another. However, one should never lose control and composure in public, thus insulting and shouting at one’s spouse in front of others. This will definitely be a means of embarrassment for the spouse and will create much bitterness in the marriage.
More important than giving vent to one’s anger and frustration is securing the heart of one’s spouse. Hence, we need to control ourselves and train …
Rules of a Muslim Home #08 – Hospitality (01)
Guests in a Muslim home is a means of attaining great barakah (blessings).
We should make a habit of inviting travellers, family members, friends and especially the ‘Ulama and pious to eat at our homes. Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) advised us saying: “The pious should eat of your food.” (Saheeh Ibni Hibbaan #554) The nutrition that a pious person will receive from the food which he has eaten at our home will aid him in the ‘ibaadah (worship) of Allah Ta‘ala. As …
Oral Sex
Question:
Assalaamu ‘alaikum
Respected ‘Ulama
My husband insists on having oral sex. He says that he won’t ejaculate and I won’t be swallowing anything napaak (impure). If I refuse to do so, I fear that he will seek pleasure elsewhere or file for divorce. For him, that is the main form of pleasure. I have heard some fatwas that say it is makrooh and others that say it is haraam. What does a female do in the event that her husband insists on it?
